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ONE YEAR STROKE ANNIVERSARY 12/02/2021

Today marks one year since my ordeal. I am grateful for every one who has showed me support in any form - financial, moral, spiritual. I look back to this day not in anger or frustration (although there is plenty to be frustrated about). Rather, I look back at it with the realisation that there is opportunity in every situation. I have always wanted to learn to code android applications. This "french leave" has allowed me to achieve this. Furthermore, I have had a number of speaking opportunities and engagement in the last 2 months. However, during my recovery I have struggled with talking about my situation. I gloss over the issue and I am quick to move on to the next topic as long as it is not about me. I know that I am not the only one that struggles with self-expression. That is why I am glad that there is an initiative to help me start to talk about their issues. The National Men's Conference is designed to be a platform to be used to talk about men's issue. Date: Saturday 13 February 2021 Time: 09 - 12 hours Charges: Free Venue: Online via Google meet (Registration required. register here - https://form.jotform.com/210403891183552) Theme: Mwamuna ama lila Topic of discussion: Is it ok for a man to cry?
I will be moderating a session at this event. See yoiu there? Both men and women are welcome to attend.

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  1. Esoko13 February 2021 at 21:06

    God has big plans for you Japhet. He showed up for you. God is using you. Continue to inspire!!!

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